Does Your Horse Like Being With You?
July 9th, 2008
It’s a simple question.
Does your horse like being with you?
Can you tell?
Have you caused him fear?
Intimidation?
Ya know, there’s a bit of fine line
between bein’ your horse’s friend and being
too much of a disciplinarian.
If you’re too much of a friend, your
horse may be too much in your space.
He may nudge you with his nose trying
to establish he’s the boss yet you may think
to yourself, “How cute. He’s playing with me.”
Tell you what.
He ain’t playin’!
The basic rule is that you make sure
Mr. Horse keeps in his space.
He doesn’t come into your space unless
you invite him in - even then,…I don’t like
doin’ that.
Instead, go to his.
But there’s a mutual respect thing
goin’ on here.
Just because you go to his space doesn’t
mean you can invade him.
Show him respect too.
If you don’t, it’ll show up later as dis-
respect to you. And when you’re in the saddle, that’s
not a good thing.
You show him respect, he shows you respect.
It’s relationship basically.
Can you imagine being with someone you
don’t feel good about?
If you’ve been divorced or had a bad friendship,
you know what I’m talkin’ about.
You don’t even want to be around that person.
When you see ‘em comin’, your stomach turns.
When you hear their voice, you think “blechhh!”
The thought of eye contact makes you wince.
Now think about the flip side.
What about the people you like having around you?
You like the sound of their voice, don’t you?
When you see them coming, you feel good about
it - even excited.
Yippee! Here’s my friend.
Is that not how you want your horse to feel
about you?
When he does, he’s more willing to do what you
ask.
He’s easier to train.
He’s safer to be around.
It’s a loyalty builder.
So how do you get your horse to want to be
with you? To feel good about you? To want to please
you?
Paul Esh, our very first trainer we filmed
from SuperStars of Horse Training, says this:
”I always want the horse
to be with me. So I start
out by rubbing him.”
Paul went on to say this helps your horse to
want to be with you more than the other horses.
Considering how strong the herd instinct is,
this is a golden horse training tip.
By the way, if you want to know more about
Paul, you can read about him at:
www.SuperStarsOfHorseTraining.com/Esh
Here’s another tip.
When your horse does what you ask, don’t
hound him.
But if you think he needs to prove to you
that he can do what you ask…then don’t ask him
to do it more than 3 times.
Then put him away.
Heck,…how would you like to be made to
do something over and over and over?
Wouldn’t you start disliking someone who
made you do that?
Would you want to please that person?
Might you have the urge to be naughty to
him since you feel like he’s bein’ naughty to you?
Just put yourself in your horse’s shoes
and see it from his perspective.
Just cuz he’s a horse doesn’t mean he’s
a mindless machine.
Treat him like you would your best friend
but still be sure to get his respect.
And for us guys - we should talk to the horse
just like we would a lady.
Adios until manana.
Sincerely,
Andy Curry
www.horsetrainingandtips.com
www.SuperStarsOfHorseTraining.com
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